Relationship Renovations - Evaluating Your Relationship

Still Waters do Not Necessarily Mean "All Is Well"

Perhaps you go out of your way to avoid confrontation. You may not like the disruption it causes. You may not feel that it accomplishes anything. It may just not be worth it.

Be aware. For some, still waters simply mean that they are DONE. They have stopped trying. For others, it may mean they are building up steam, resentment, will power to leave.

You know if things are not right. You feel it. There is no pretense that will cover it up indefinitely. At least if you choose confrontation, you eliminate the surprise that comes with partners, friends, significant others who leave for no apparent reason and give no warning. The information was always there.

Do a Cannonball!!

Stir it up, go for direct communication, don't be afraid to hear what's wrong. You cannot fix it if you go for the fiction of "Peace".